Love and Relationships

Reaching across Generations, an Interview with Sandra

I’m sitting here in my virtual living room with Sandra, of one of my favorite blogs Add Humor and Faith…mix well. I absolutely love her stories, especially the ones about her and her Hubby. And I actually wanted to have her over (virtually) for Valentine’s Day, to talk about love and marriage. But because of [...]

A Date at the Laundromat

A romance thread at Sherry the Redhead Riter’s “BlogNTweet” forum reminded me of this story. Sherry asked how often we date.
Now, of course, I don’t date, because my Beloved (formerly “the Missus”), she doesn’t let me date. (It’s probably better that way.)
But we do “date” each other, occasionally… Well…
We used to date, even if we [...]

Valentine’s Day Blog Posts

On the fourth day of Valentine’s, I thought I’d link to a few cool posts from some of the blogs that I follow:

Pam Epstein is completing her PhD dissertation, about love and marriage from the mid-nineteenth to early-twentieth century in America. For her research, she’s looking at old newspaper personal ads, and sharing some of [...]

A Young Love Story: The Sister I Never Had

Just before my 15′th birthday, my father attended a weekend business meeting at a small college in Utica, NY, and the whole family came along for a weekend road trip.
Hung up on a girl I had met in school, before I had left for Utica, she and I argued. Words were spoken. Angers flared. Drawing [...]

The Best Valentines Come from the Little Ones

The Little One (our resident artist) doesn’t know I’m posting this, but I don’t think she’d be upset. She got some white soap at the drug store, and carved it and colored it, as a gift for Mommy.
I remember when I was a kid, buying (or making) and giving away Valentines to all my classmates. [...]

Friday Fun: Quip Hits

A number of short statements, commentaries, and useless insights collected over the last mumble-mumble months.
On Technology
Top Facebook group: “I’m not yelling…I’m Italian…thats how we talk.”
Top Facebook group that someone ought to start: “Walking around naked makes me feel sexy.”
Some weeks ago, I posted “Coconut” to my Facebook status, and no one noticed. Do you know [...]

A Dream to Explore

A quick midnight blog post and an announcement.
I swear I did not coordinate this with Jamie Ridler. It’s either an astounding coincidence or a message from God. At midnight, a couple hours ago, Jamie prompted for Wishcasting Wednesday, “What dream do you wish to explore?” And as the song says, a dream is a wish [...]

What is Love without Strings?

What is love without strings? I’ve phrased the question ambiguously.
It could mean, “What is love, without strings?”
Is there any love in existence that has no strings on it? We all put strings on our love. We all have conditions, whether or not or how much to love someone else, not for the sake of the [...]

Parents of Divorced Couples

I ran into an interesting issue today with one of the characters of From the Ashes of Courage.
In brief, Gail and George divorced years ago, and they haven’t seen each other since. Now, she’s part of his life again, as a friend. George’s father seems genuinely happy to see her and treats her with affection [...]

I’ve Been Married 16 Years: Do You Believe It?

As of this afternoon, I will have been married for 16 years.
I’m not quite sure what happened to that time.
When we first got married, we crammed ourselves into a tiny, attic apartment on High Street. We used to go grocery shopping together, every week. And we brought our laundry, together, across town to the nice [...]