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The bridge on Spencerville Road crossing the Lower Styx river, in the aftermath of a 2010 earthquake in Canterbury (including Christchurch City) NZ. Photo: Martin Luff

Making Sense of My Stage-5 Post

By J. Timothy King on January 27, 2019

WARNING: This post is long. Over 5,000 words. It’s a braindump of something that’s been stewing in me for over 4 years. “I’m warning you, if you proceed to Stage 5, and you’re not ready to be ostracized from the relationship—the larger relationship, perhaps the family, the job, the social group—then you’re not ready for […]

Posted in Christianity, Religion | Tagged cognitive dissonance, Evangelicalism, Greta Christina, narcissism, projection, Ross Rosenberg, Sam Harris, self-love, shame, spiritual abuse

Original image by Harry Gouvas on WikiMedia.

Five Harmful Religious Ideas I Had to Unlearn about Sex

By J. Timothy King on March 23, 2018

This post originally appeared two years ago on Removing the Fig Leaf. I was born a Pentecostal. My background was not as extreme as Kim Davis’s Pentecostalism, but I did grow up on Jimmy Swaggart and “That Thing” and homophobia and overt misogyny and stories of demon sex spirits imprinting pornographic images on my mind […]

Posted in Christianity, Religion, Transitions | Tagged Pentecostalism, polyamory, relationships, sex, shame

Christ on the Cross,  Giovanni Battista Tiepolo
[Source: WikiMedia]

The “Good” about Friday

By J. Timothy King on March 25, 2016

I grew up in a shame-and-blame religion. The so-called Good News, as taught to me, is that we humans are fundamentally evil, unholy, sinners, distant from God. And so to save us, God needed to execute the perfect blood sacrifice. And there was only one person perfect enough to serve as that sacrifice, God himself. […]

Posted in Christianity, Religion | Tagged Good Friday, shame

Photo: Rebekah Bowman

Self Rules

By J. Timothy King on February 23, 2015

I’m not sure exactly where I’m going with this blog site. I haven’t posted much over the last year, but that’s because I am a different person—in a sense—than I was in January 2014. I know I entitled this blog “Hope, Love, and Peace,” and I still believe in those qualities. But I also believe […]

Posted in Inspiration, Personal Improvement | Tagged psychology, self-esteem, shame | 1 Response

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