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By J. Timothy King on August 9, 2012
Links and things that I’ve run across recently. Return to Triskelion To ordinary people with dictionaries, a triskelion is an artistic motif consisting of three interlocked spirals. Star Trek fans, however, will recognize “Triskelion” as the planet where the “Providers” (these ultra-powerful, disembodied, colored, light-up brain guys) betted on how fights would turn out between […]
Posted in Bits & Pieces | Tagged Curiosity, depression, Mat Honan, Star Trek
By J. Timothy King on August 8, 2012
I think my theme for this week is: life is getting better. If you’re a Gilmore Girls fan, you might remember the episode after Rory and Dean had their affair, the one in which Dean’s wife Lindsay discovers Rory’s “heinous letter in Dean’s jacket.” Oy f***in’ vey! See, this is what happens when children grow […]
Posted in Christianity, Judaism, Personal Improvement, Religion | Tagged black-and-white thinking, Chick-fil-A, Dave Ramsey, debt collectors, depression, Elijah, emotion, Gilmore Girls, nuance, psychology, spirituality, Star Trek
By J. Timothy King on July 5, 2012
Developing software is supposed to be one of the best jobs available, because it uses creativity, and it requires professional independence. And those software jobs are out there. But some of us are not currently working one of those jobs. In early 2009, I wrote a post entitled “7 Best Things About Being a Consulting […]
Posted in Confessions of a Veteran Software Developer, Software Development, Stories, True Stories | Tagged biography, depression, programming, software engineering, stress |
By J. Timothy King on July 2, 2012
As you may remember, after the NOKWID project several years ago, I crashed, hard, spent several months deep in depression. And I just now finally feel like I’ve climbed out of that hole, a hole I had ironically dug for myself. I felt forever tired, forever useless, forever a burden on my family. Nothing gave […]
Posted in Health, Mental Health, Personal Improvement | Tagged depression, Ivan Tyrrell, Joe Griffin, psychology
By J. Timothy King on June 20, 2012
According to Dave Ramsey, money arguments are the number-one cause of marital strife. Now, I’m not sure where he got that factoid. And I don’t actually know whether it’s true, because marriages—as all relationships—are more complex and nuanced than a single cause. Regardless, it is surely true that money arguments are a leading factor in […]
Posted in Books, Love and Relationships, Love through the Eyes of an Idiot, Stories, True Stories | Tagged budgeting, Dave Ramsey, depression, finances, Financial Peace University, Ivan Tyrrell, Joe Griffin, marriage, money, psychology |
By J. Timothy King on June 19, 2012
Reading back through some of the old posts on this blog, I see a man who saw wonderful possibilities for his future, and an undiminishable drive to pursue those possibilities; a man who saw the future as his salvation, not as his curse. What happened to that man? He’s still inside me, beat down by […]
Posted in Health, Mental Health, Teaser Tuesdays | Tagged C.R. Snyder, depression, hope, psychology, The Psychology of Hope
By J. Timothy King on March 18, 2010
I’m sitting here in my virtual living room with author Sharon Cathcart, to talk about psychological depression—which I’ve had my own experiences with, as you may know if you’ve been following this blog for any length of time. Sharon has been a journalist, a newspaper editor, and an award-winning poet. Now, she’s authored a novel, […]
Posted in Books, Inspiration | Tagged depression, In the Eye of the Beholder, interview, Les Pensées Dangereuses, Sharon E. Cathcart |
By J. Timothy King on March 17, 2010
Another part of this series of posts, “Depression and the Software Developer.” This latest story I started on Monday, part 4 of “Depression and the Software Developer”. [Note: You can read the story from the beginning in order to catch up.] No client or employer will ever admit to you that he doesn’t want to […]
Posted in Confessions of a Veteran Software Developer, Software Development, Stories, True Stories | Tagged biography, depression, programming, software engineering, stress |
By J. Timothy King on March 15, 2010
Here’s a story I’ve been keeping on the back burner for almost a year now. I haven’t published it until now, because it still hit too close to home. But this week, I’ve scheduled an interview with Sharon Cathcart, author of In the Eye of the Beholder, which I am currently reading, and a memoir […]
Posted in Confessions of a Veteran Software Developer, Software Development, Stories, True Stories | Tagged biography, depression, programming, software engineering, stress |
By J. Timothy King on September 22, 2009
This past week, I asked on Facebook, “When NOTHING seems to be going as it should, how do you avoid getting all negative?” My Facebook friends gave me a number of possible answers, but nothing really hit home, this past Saturday morning in synagogue when we read a selection from First Samuel chapter 1. Suddenly, […]
Posted in Christianity, Fiction, Inspiration, Judaism, Religion, Stories, True Stories | Tagged depression, encouragement, spirituality